When I think of perfect weather for events, whether they are indoors or outdoors, bright, mild and clear days always come to mind. However, today was the first day of heavy rain we've had for a while and it made me think of all the panicked brides dealing with bad weather on their special day.
 Rain is one of the worst things that can happen on your wedding day, short of your fiancĂ© running off with one of the bridesmaids, a vendor falling through or your sick great aunt Millie deciding to cross over during the cocktail hour. Whoever invented that "rain on your wedding day is good luck" concept definitely gets an A for effort but just like telling someone that those high-waisted jeans are flattering on their figure, we all know it's just a bold-faced lie to make you feel better about mother natures backstabbing treachery. 

While I know you may be hyperventilating into a bag about the weather issues at your wedding, keep in mind with the help of your professional event planner your day will still go off without a hitch and can be just as beautiful as you imagined pre-monsoon season. Here are a few things to help keep your sanity in case it does hit the fan.

First things First:
If you're planning on having an outdoor wedding, you must always always always have a rain plan. If you're doing an outdoor wedding and don't plan on having a tent, research it just in case. Always have a tent available on hold if possible so that worst case scenario you're not having to reschedule your entire day.  If you're renting other items from the company that has tents, most likely they will be able to add the tent on a few days before your wedding if the forecast is calling for rain, this is another reason to have an event planner, they will have the rapport with the rental company that may be the make or break deterring factor on whether or not you get a last minute tent! 

Backup plan:
If you are using a venue that has an outdoor and indoor space you may want to speak with the venue to find out if your event can be moved indoors. If the venue is not having another event that same day or you have reserved the entire property this may not be an issue. However, be prepared for them to say no. If you had listened to my first point we wouldn't be here.

Get creative:
So it's raining and you can't get a tent and you have no indoor space backup plan for the ceremony or reception.  Let's say 2 days before you realize this and a hurricane is coming, there is nothing you can do about it and the fury of an angry bride cannot overcome mother natures wrath or convince her to go back out to sea where her stupid precipitation is actually wanted. Now it's time to get creative. This is the worst case scenario because you've already placed your deposit on the place and now the entire thing needs to be moved. 

One option for you could be to host an umbrella themed ceremony. This will not be comfortable nor will it be easy but if you have a smaller crowd you can run to the store, snatch up as many umbrellas as they have and do the ceremony in the rain. I think this could also be an incredible photo opp as long as you booked a great photographer. The problem is, eating dinner, drinking and dancing in the rain isn't happening unless you go heavy on the 2nd part and your guests are happy to get muddy and gross. Again, what a funny picture but probably not what you want for your special day. If you're able to get your deposit back on venues, vendors, rentals etc. contact your favorite restaurant and see if they can reserve a room for you. Again, this only works if you have less than 100 people and you're gonna spend some coin buying everyone dinner and drinking but no more than what you would have with a catered dinner. 

If you have over 100 people, no rain plan, no tent,  no backup plan and no event planner to make a miracle happen it's time to go get eloped and come to terms with the fact that maybe your critical thinking skills aren't as sharp as you thought they were.















A little throwback for this fine sunny day as the temperatures climb above freezing and the snow begins to melt. I'm getting into baby shower mode as next month I'll be throwing a baby shower for my wonderful friend Kristi. I was talking to Janessa yesterday over some nutella hot chocolate and Bear snuggles about the fun rustic yellow, grey and white themed baby shower she threw for our neighbor Ashley and her triplets who are now adorable little balls of cuteness! I wanted to show off some of the adorable decor, yummy food and a couple small details that I think made this day so fun! 

Janessa did cute tissue paper pom pons, streamer window treatments and a beautiful tulle table skirt

I made a few yellow, grey and white banners to hang around the dessert table as well as the favor table.

love all of the pops of yellow! I made strawberry cream cheese, salted caramel chocolate and pumpkin spice cupcakes for the event from The Random Bakery.

another shot of the pretty food table that was surrounded by people moments after this picture, people including myself shoving food in my face.

Ashley chose to do bath & body works body wash favors in their Aromatherapy: Energy line. I actually still use this body wash from time to time when I need to wake up a little bit, it has an invigorating orange ginger scent. Each little bottle had a tag that read 
"from Ashleys shower to yours"

All of the neighbor girls, myself looking a little boyish and crazy, the beautiful glowing Ashley, Janessa in all of her party planning fabulousness and Allison our always flawless neighbor.

Looking back on the pictures has me in inspirational mode to continue all of the baby shower planning for Kristi's shower in April. Do you know anyone having a baby soon? Are you planning their shower, I would love to see pictures! 
Although I just posted about winter weddings and how absolutely gorgeous they can be (and I still stand by that statement) I don't think I'm fooling anyone by pretending I'm not totally in the mood for sunshine and summer. I think if I hadn't gone to Mexico a few weeks back, I would probably still be stuck in the doldrums of winter content with the fact that we are getting more snow this week and I'll just have to save my spring wardrobe for another month. 

So it should come as no surprise that I was so struck by this stunning Red & Coral Santa Barbara wedding posted by Inspiredbythis a few days ago. the hot, fiery colors, the bright desert decor and how fun the entire thing looks while maintaining a simple elegance that is so often over-looked by couples wanting to "go big or go home". Inspired by this? I surely am!








Check out all of the stunning pictures as well as vendor info here.